"Once is a coincidence and twice is suspicious. Three times means I know what you've done and will adjust my behaviour accordingly. You should probably do the same."
There are few things that make my skin crawl as much as being lied to, especially in regards to the value of trust and the expectation of privacy. I lean towards giving people the benefit of the doubt and a polite demeanor has often been mistaken for blind stupidity. In reality, that wasn't far off. Too many times I've allowed myself to be a doormat and not knowing when to draw the line has cost me and people around me dearly in the past. Younger me had harsh lessons to learn...about keeping emotions in check, patience, and quietly gathering receipts. Who knew KimmyK could teach this old gal valuable lessons? Say what you want about her (and I have) but that girl is dumb like a fox.